"I watch and listen. It doesn't take being in their homes to see what happens behind closed doors. The glances they give their current lover are self-evident as are the ones to their current spouse. Money is not happiness, a little can help, but too much...it defines them, confines them, causes them to search for a purpose that is not fulfillment in their marriage or a job, which they no longer need to have." Confessed, "At one time, I played the game, searched for a happiness I learned they could not give me. Very few would be contented with an evening of reading a book, sipping a drink and just being quiet together. If they have such a difficult time accepting themselves, then in the end, they cannot fully accept the qualities of others."

"Now," clearing her throat, "I did not mean to make you depressed, but you should know, if you play, do it because it is fun for you, not because you hope to find anyone to keep. Should you find that one loyal person, keep them because they are a rarity."