Hadn't yet when you meet people like me? (She wants to feel slightly amused, but she's more curious and confused.)

(She "hehs" and then glances out of the corner of her eye, then all the amusement she felt in that second vanishes when she feels his face.)

I'm not a fan of having people feel sorry for me...I'm not asking for you to feel sorry for me. (She feels sorry enough for herself.) I don't want you to feel sorry for me.